Full Circle Moments

There are moments in life when you come around to the where you’ve been before; full circle moments. These are the moments forcing you to take stock of your life and realize just what kind of progress you’ve made.

Today, I briefed a group of high school educators on the benefits the Army offers to those serving, and this applies to all branches of military service. Four years ago, I would have been in the audience as one of those high school teachers. Now, I’m the Military Education Counselor, providing information on options they can present to their students for opportunities in careers and higher education.

As a former high school teacher and advisor to the same group of students during their sophomore through senior years, gently guiding them to make sound choices leading to graduating high school on time, then setting them up for success for those next years of their lives, was something I was proud of. But I also knew many of them would finish the next four or five years post high school graduation struggling with student loan debt. Others would start college, and find they could not afford to continue leading them to take jobs to pay their living expenses, not to meet their goals. Some would find they were ill prepared for college once they got there, but because that is the direction society pushes them into, instead of a place where they would thrive while gaining perspective and maturity, they are now discouraged, perhaps having boomeranged right back to their old bedrooms in their parents’ homes.

Not all young adults are ready to be an academic or career success at 18. In fact, most are not.

In my serial fiction series, “An Operator’s Daughter,” I’ve tried to do a soft-sell on what I presented to educators today: serving in our nation’s armed forces provides options and opportunities for young adults in ways other areas of society doesn’t.

My main character, Ashton Grace McAllister (Maguire), uses her father’s Post 911 GI Bill benefits as one way to pay her college expenses. Those who serve in the military at least 10 years may allocate months of their benefits at year six, then serve another four to pass along the precious gift of debt-free education to their spouse or their children.

Ashton’s young Special Warfare Operator, Dustin, is using tuition assistance benefits to pay for college courses while he serves to earn a bachelor of science degree in engineering. And, as he is active-duty Navy, he is considered an independence adult, no longer a dependent of his parents, and thus is eligible for Pell Grants based upon his income only. College students who are not active duty military must factor their parents’ income into their Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) keeping many ineligible for Pell Grants.

While Ashton began her college courses with a goal to major in psychology and become a mental health counselor, Dustin started with the goal of completing his general education requirements, figuring if he just got started, he would find what he was good at leading to him to choose a college major. Those serving can also have colleges evaluate their Joint Services Transcript—the record of their military training, and that training is worth college credit. Choosing a college degree plan maximizes that training allows them to complete their associate’s and bachelor’s degree faster.

One might say, once a teacher, always a teacher. While I may have been driven away from a high school classroom, I’ve landed on my feet at a place where I can continue to make differences in the lives of others. My happy place is Joint Base Lewis McChord’s Stone Education Center, and my passion is helping soldiers, veterans, and their dependents meet their education and career goals along with creating stories during my evenings and weekends found on the serial fiction platform Amazon’s Kindle Vella.


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A motif addressed in An Operator’s Daughter, parts I through III, is the concept that things in our lives happen for a reason. It is a concept I have struggled with personally my entire life.

Sometimes I feel I am lacking the faith gene; like my main character, Ashton McAllister, I struggle with faith, whether it is in a higher power or in those around me. I learn from my experiences, and those experiences have led me to go about things cautiously.

This week marks my first year anniversary working as a military contractor at the Stone Education Center on Joint Base Lewis McChord. To begin, it took a leap of faith to put myself up for a position as a substitute instructor in their Basic Skills Education Program—teaching math skills. My subject endorsements are English and Social Studies. Math has never been a strong subject for me. I’ll admit that once I understood those were the skills, I would be primarily teaching, I hit the Internet, YouTube videos, in particular, to recall what I had learned during elementary, middle school, and high school math classes.

As human beings, we learn through our experiences, through trial and error—none of us wish to make too many errors—and through repetition. Doing things correctly, over and over, inscribes those skills on our brains. It was how I was taught, and learned, those basic math skills to begin with and I am grateful for that repetition because those patterns came back to me fairly quickly and I could then instructor the soldiers who were enrolled in the program to increase their own GT scores leading to expanded opportunities for career growth.

That leap of faith on my part took a great deal of courage. I had been beaten down not only by being harassed out of a teaching career I loved and putting my heart and soul into making a difference, but then faced rejection and rejection as I looked for new employment. It hurts to get through the interview process, then being told you are exactly what they were hoping to hire, then have the reference check tank everything—and this happened repeatedly. When the offer of employment finally came from my fabulous supervisor at Indtai, I pinched myself, waiting to hear it would be pulled back. I am ever so grateful it wasn’t.

The opportunities for professional and personal growth with this new employer have restored my faith in myself and those I have the privilege of working alongside. Having recently been moved into a role where I am giving briefings about benefits, counseling service members, their dependents, and veterans on educational opportunities, and even being given the opportunity to start a writing lab to provide support for those wishing to improve their skills while writing application essays, working through research papers, or even writing in Army-style, I feel blessed that I am now in a position where I can serve those who serve our nation.

But did all this happen for a reason? Did I have to go through the heartbreak of giving up my teaching position to land in a place where I am surrounded by the support of others, and those others truly appreciate the support they receive?

Do things, crappy things or happy things, happen for a reason?

I will continue to explore that concept through my serial fiction characters, having faith that others will find strength in the story. As I have written it, I am finding faith in myself.

The Power of a Positive Greeting

“Welcome to American’s Joint Base, Ma’am!”

It is the standard greeting I receive every morning when I drive through the gates at Joint Base Lewis McChord on my way to my job at the Stone Education Center. I realize that it’s the soldier’s assignment to man the gates; turn around those who shouldn’t enter, refer those who have a need to be on base but need to check-in with the visitor’s center first to go in the proper direction, and provide a deterrent to those who may wish to do others harm, but this positive greeting sets the tone for a productive day for myself, and I’m certain, for others.

No matter the weather, and this past week it has been below freezing conditions, no matter how many are in the queue waiting to get through the gate, no matter how their scanning equipment is functioning, these soldiers put enthusiasm into their brief interactions with those funneling through on their way to their roles on base. My own “good morning” to them, as I present my identification, is returned with warm smiles in their eyes (yes, the mask mandate hides the ones on their lips). Their greetings, outgoing and professional, demonstrate their commitment and pride in their service. It provides an extra incentive to do my upmost to follow their leads, to greet those who approach the ACES counseling desk with matching positivity, while providing support in reaching their educational goals.

My challenge to you, is to put that same effort into your own initial interactions with others. Make your greetings the kind that encourages those you meet to have their best day possible. Positivity is contagious, and those soldiers on gate duty at JBLM prove it each and every day.